Addressing Small Hurts Before They Pile Up

By the time many couples decide to attend marriage counseling or couples counseling, at least one half of the couple is angry, resentful and fed up.  It is rarely over one event or incident.  It is often described as unresolved hurt after hurt that has chipped away at the relationship, and their feelings toward their partner.  This article provides some tips to address those hurts before they pile up — turning toward each other and trying to hear and understand each other is part of it — which is not always easy when trust, good will and good intentions are gone. Are you wondering whether you or your spouse need to talk these things through?  www.ontariotherapist.com