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Couples arriving for therapy in Ontario are often asking a version of the same question, even if the words differ:[…]
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A lot of people arrive in therapy frustrated with themselves. They say things like: “I don’t understand why I keep[…]
Read moreEmotional Neglect and Attachment Trauma: When What Didn’t Happen Still Hurts
Many people who find their way to therapy don’t identify as having experienced trauma. They’ll often say things like, “Nothing[…]
Read more“My Childhood Was Fine”… But Why Do I Still Feel This Way?
Many adults start therapy with a confusing mix of thoughts that sound something like this: “Nothing terrible happened to me.”[…]
Read moreWinter Depression and Finding Joy: Not by Escaping Pain, but Making Space Beside It
Winter has a way of sharpening the edges of our lives. I felt it personally this week when my furnace[…]
Read moreAnxiety Therapy: Why Anxiety Doesn’t Go Away When You’re “Doing Everything Right”
You might be doing everything you’re supposed to do. You’re productive. Insightful. Responsible. You’ve read the books, tried the strategies,[…]
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